Tuesday

Pick your battles, not your war.

Verily I say, men should be anxiously engaged in a good cause, and do many things of their own free will, and bring to pass much righteousness;
For the power is in them, wherein they are agents unto themselves. And inasmuch as men do good they shall in nowise lose their reward.

(Doctrine and Covenants | Section 58:27 - 28)


It's difficult to tell if anyone is really serious about this recent discussion of secession. I think not. Still, it sounds a lot like the whine of "I don't want to play this game any more" when someone's had a losing streak. Maybe the Bushies have been a little hard on the Kerry supporters, but I really can't blame them. For four years it's been "selected, not elected". For four years it's been "He's an idiot!" For four years it's been "Bushitler!" And when somebody finally stomps the spoiled little name-calling brat in a game, it's "I don't want to play any more". Seriously, I'm fed up.

I'm fed up with people saying that America isn't sensitive to the needs of other countries, and automatically ascribing the worst possible motives to everything we do. We pay more in foreign aid than any other country on the face of the Earth. Were we truly the greedy bastards we're made out to be in the media and abroad, such largesse would be seriously curtailed, if not cut off altogether.

I'm fed up with people saying that Bush isn't a statesman. There are times for the nuanced phrase, for a boot to have a "dapper strap." And there are times to talk straight and plunge into the fire. In the words of Dr. Seuss, "I meant what I said, and I said what I meant, and an elephant's faithful, One Hundred Percent". We're currently engaged in two military actions, one in Afghanistan, and one in Iraq, with a coalition of dozens of nations. Discounting building that coalition as being somehow not the work of a statesman is disheartening. In fact, I think it's intellectually dishonest.

To those of you who are disappointed, disheartened, or disturbed over the election, I say - quit your whining. Pouting, complaining, and cynical snarky comments will not make you feel any better. Nor will they allow the unity you seem to think Bush should be magically bringing to the land. (Oh, wave your magical pixie wand, Mr. Bush, and make us like each other!). Get up, get out, get busy. Participate in the process.

To those of you who are taking the opportunity to rub some faces in it, here's an idea. Quit it. This is America. Show the tolerance the left says you're so devoid of. Show that you are willing to accept people of any political stripe - even Deaniacs. Take this opportunity as a sign - your efforts aren't wasted, people will respond. Get up, get out, get busy. Resting on your laurels here will lead to a rash, and you getting your butts kicked next time around.

On both sides, listen. Listen for understanding. There's always the chance that someone will make a good point that will change your thinking about one issue or other. There is always the possibility that you are wrong. Understand that. Embrace it. And don't let it stop you from participating. Listen, so you can respond intelligently to earnest questions raised by those who don't agree with you, and by those who aren't sure who they agree with.

Ready...
Set...
Go!!!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good luck. Two problems with that: First, when we complain about the whining, we're the "angry enfranchised." Because its our fault for winning, our fault for being too stupid to understand their message, and our fault for not "reaching out."

Second, it's hard to listen to what someone else is saying when, as they are speaking, you are already formulating your comeback. And that, I'm afraid, is what most people do: Exchange soundbites, rather than discuss. 

Posted by Jennifer

Anonymous said...

That's exactly right. Which is why it's important for both parties to quit doing that. You're more effective as a communicator, (and, I'd argue, you'll be more effective as a lawyer eventually) if you listen for understanding, not pretend to listen while you're formulating your response.

And when I talk about people rubbing faces in it, I'm mostly talking about this kind of thing. The "Take That, You Sons of Bitches" approach strikes me as being completely inappropriate. No one is being conquered here.  

Posted by Zach

Anonymous said...

Zach
As one of the disenfranchised leftist, I thought I would take the opportunity to explain my view on this. I lost, my views are clearly not the prevailing one. I will not whine or complain. In fact I will not do anything for the next four years. I was trained as an environmental lawyer, but the people have voted for a president single handedly, (and in many cases without public process) increased the amount of timber that can be harvested, increased the amount of mercury allowed in our water, increased the amount of drilling on our public lands. So be it. I can't justify acting as an environmental lawyer right now. I refuse to accept responsibility for the environmental problems caused by this administration, or the ones that will be coming in the next four years. If you (being the majority who voted for Bush,) are concerned about this, I suggest you start doing something because this leftist will no longer be advocating. Same with legalized abortion, amending the constituion, civil liberties... Pretty much anything. It's not that I lost and I don't want to play anymore, I'm making a political statement in the only way I can right now, by going on strike. So if you're looking for me, I'll be planting trees, reading to kids (things I can support right now), and wishing the majority luck.

CS
 

Posted by chaitna

Anonymous said...

Which is the same as bugging out. You're withdrawing from something that's important to you, because of one election. And that's just sad.

Don't expect me to feel too sorry for you when you're the one that's giving up.  

Posted by Zach

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